When your family says they love you no matter what, they really mean, 'as long as you meet their standards'. I can't come out of the closet to them, because, they'll only love me if I'm straight. I can't cut my hair, because they want me to have long hair. I can't be who I am, because they'll only love me if I'm perfect.
If you're going to be like that, then I don't need your so-called 'love'. If you really loved me, accept me for who I am.
But we all know that will never happen.
((Sorry for being an angst-cake, but I am PISSED!!! This is only my dad's side of the family anyway, so I'm not completely alone. :) ))